I needed a place where I could express my appreciation for the website getherbackguide.com and it's 6 step process, away from the judgement of my girlfriend and all the people we know. That's why I'm putting this review on a free website instead of using my personal blog.. so that I can do this fairly anonymously.
Right so where do I start. My girlfriend basically turned on me. Almost overnight she went from the sweet girl I'd planned to marry, to this passive aggressive troll, and I just couldn't work out why. I tolerated this for months and eventually she left me. I was baffled by the whole thing. Truly I couldn't work out why she turned like that. Obviously it was gutting when she left, and after receiving poor advice from my friends and family (they mostly just said "you need to move on, Jase") I turned to the internet in search of a better perspective.
Enter Getherbackguide.com
I was just messing around in google looking for advice, and after searching for "how can I get my girlfriend back", or something to that effect, I found getherbackguide.com. Straight away I started reading the article on the homepage that basically acts as a test for what caused your break up and therefore what course of action you should take. Very quickly things started to add up. The article basically asks questions and if you answer yes to certain ones, it explains why your break up happened.
At the very least it was a relief to start understanding why she'd left me. It showed me that by being too nice and by insisting to my girlfriend how committed to our relationship I was, the attraction had died (for her) because she saw no challenge in me. There were other reasons it showed me too but that's the one that sticks in my mind.
After that the site lead me to watch a very compelling video, which resulted in me buying what they call a "premium pass" to "the vault". They claimed inside it was a 6 step process that would make my ex girlfriend want to get back with me. Well I'm a bit of a skeptic when it comes to buying stuff over the internet, but they'd given me so much great information that I thought I'd take a gamble on this get her back guide vault pass.
The power of the 6 steps
Straight away I could understand why the 6 step process is what it is, or in other words why these are the steps you need to take to get a girl back. It was all so well explained and I felt instantly better just know that this gave me some hope.
I started off with step 1 which was more or less to cut contact for a while. I was pretty worried after a few days of this because my ex wasn't trying to communicate with me like I had hoped, so I contacted the site owners and explained what was going on. Within an hour I had received an email re-assurring me to just trust the process and giving answers to a couple of other questions I had.
So I carried on to step 2 which involved learning a few changes to make to my behaviour so that I'd come across to my ex as a more attractive man than she knew. In the video that I watched before buying, it did explain that step 2 would show me these behaviour changes and I was worried that they might not work for my personality. Turns out they're so subtle that they could work for any man so I was worrying over nothing. They took some practice to get into the habit of using them, but I did notice that even a week after starting to use them, women were showing me more attention than they had before. This is of little consequence really as I all I wanted was to have my ex back, but still I thought it was worth a mention.
Getting her attention
Next came step 3 which was to do things that would arouse my ex's interest in me. This is where it gets really clever. It gives you a list of suggested things to do, and you're supposed to pick the ones you're comfortable doing. One of them involves changing your relationship status on facebook to a particular setting. This was meant to make her think I'm perhaps involved with another girl, which I wasn't, but the idea of this was to get her to feel the sort of panic that could jolt her into changing her mind about me.
And that's the part where it started to work. Hours after I changed my fb relationship status, she called me, but I panicked and didn't answer it. I had no idea what the best thing to do was but when I looked at the list of steps, step 4 was about how to communicate with her, and after reading it I knew exactly what to do. I was starting to feel a bit more like I was in control of the situation, which felt good.
Back and forth communicating with her
We started to text back and forth and with some intermittent calling too. Step 4 saved me here because I would have just answered every single call and stayed on the line as long as possible. I would also have texted her back instantly after receiving texts from her, which it turns out is totally unattractive. The instructions enabled me to communicate with her in a way that built attraction instead of destroyed it.
Eventually when things were going well I did step 5 which is to hang out with her. Again it showed me like a blueprint to follow for our date, and it was super helpful as you'll see below...
Our second "first date"
I was pretty damn nervous to be meeting with her. The one thing that did help to calm me though was that step 5 from this guide had showed me what to do on this date. The guide had gotten me this far so by now I trusted it completely. It went great! She started out seeming pretty cold but I did as the instructions said and refused to join in her negative energy, and by me staying positive she soon came around to my positive energy. From there we were flirting like old times, and after we'd had a few drinks we went back to my place. I'll spare you the gory details of that but she was significantly impressed that I had "improved in bed so much" and she was even worried where I had learned that stuff. Imagine if I told her the truth. "Well dear, I learned that from step 6 of get her back guide." Lol anyway after that all I did was just continue to apply what I learned over the next few days and soon enough she said she wanted me back. I then did as the guide said I should, which was to act all unsure about what I wanted for a while, in order to make myself a challenge, and we got back together within a week.
Get her back guide works.
If you've read all of this review then you'll have come to the conclusion that it worked for me. I can't speak highly enough of it. I can't claim that it'll have a 100% success rate for everyone but after checking out plenty of other information on this subject on other websites, I can say that this process gives you the highest chance of getting your ex girlfriend back. I just wanted to spread the word a bit to try to pay forward what I've gained from it. I'm far smarter when it comes to my relationship now, and I feel like I'm in a good place going forward given what I've learned, and I say that whether it works out between my girl and I or not. If you are considering buying it and you really want your ex girlfriend back, then I would say go for it.
Thanks for reading!
Jase
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